How to get over a relationship

One of the most painful experiences in life is the feeling of having your heart broken in two as a result of the break up of a relationship. Despite such emotional turmoil it is not impossible to escape the fall out from the demise of a relationship. In fact the end of a relationship can be liberating.

When we enter a relationship as people the trade off we make is not usually noticed at all. 

Thinking two is better than one we go down the path of sharing who we are with another. If one is honest we become so engrossed in our bond with another the fundamental work of our life goes undone.

Due to this the newly liberated man, or woman should be happy to be able to focus on her independent desires full time removed from the context of working around a relationship.

 This is easier said than done one of the main things that does not escape people for a long time when them, and their partner part ways is pain. The past memories off walks on the beach, and holding hands can haunt a person.

I can really sympathize personally I have felt their pain but most times the relationship once it is over their usually is no going back, and the best thing to do is move on straight away rather than suffer the wrenching pain of longing for what once was, and now never will be again.

To move on the thing you have to do is replace the thoughts of your break up with new positive emotions these thoughts can be of a happy incident with a friend, or love one not related to your prior relationship. Even if the thought is off chocolate as long as it removes you from a situation where you are focused on feeling bad because, you are thinking about your recent ex.

What should occur by using this technique is by living your life like you were never in a relationship before today, and never broke up with your ex your life should become what you thought it was because you were mainly thinking of certain thoughts, and occupying yourself with productive tasks you have drawn the situation into your life where you have attracted positive events changing your whole life situation.

This law of attraction effect can really change you to where you were wallowing in misery following a break up to where you are not even thinking about your ex, and his/her miserable life. Although we can get over others following a long tern relationship ending we never really loose touch with them.

They could be gone maybe even deceased but while their loss no longer emotionally cripples us as a person the memory of each being we once held in our minds as special in our lives is part of us forever making us stronger in future.